This happened to me a long time ago with a particularly cute girl… but the lesson learned back then is worth telling.
We went on a couple of dates. She didn’t let me kiss her on the first one, which was a little embarrassing for my ego.
Anyways, I could tell she really liked me. I didn’t want to take things slow because she liked me.. a lot. We went out on a few dates right in the mall where I picked her up, 5 minutes away from her flat.
Yet, she just wouldn’t agree to go to her place. Things were going awesome yet, nothing. So I just had to figure out what was going one.
A few reasons as to why she didn’t want to do this crossed my mind.
I’m not sure if you’re aware but, we have a very exciting movie that is about to debut in 2013: everyone’s heard about Neil Strauss’ book, The Game, right? For many, it’s the book that started it all.
MGM acquired some time ago the rights from “Style”, the PUA nickname by which Neil is known… and they decided to make a movie based around the book!
Brian Koppelman and David Levien, the guys behind the movie Solitary Man (2009) have taken on the task of putting the best pick-up book in history on the big screen.
The role of Mystery will be played by James Franco but there’s no word yet as to who will play Neil Strauss.
So you haven’t read the book yet !?
If you haven’t, I recommend that you do BEFORE the movie comes out.
Here’s Amazon’s description of the book:
One of the things that kind upsets some of my fellow friends who are good with women is the fact that I only go for the hotties. Some of them have the “let me get her drunk mentality” or the “as long as she has a pu**y she’s perfect” thinking.
If you want hot women, you have to go for them. I hate to sound like those guys that talk about the law of attraction but your behaviors really DO shape you.
Make a habit of approaching regular girls and that’s what you’ll have in your life.
Make a habit of approaching hot girls and you’ll get them.
Before you do that, however, let me give you a few pointers on what to do and what NOT to do. Hot chicks are different than your girl next door and should be treated differently.
The title may sound weird but this is deep stuff, man. This trick right here is extremely powerful as long as you do it right.
Ever heard of NLP. Neuro-linguistic programming is a way of communication that can give you high leverage with women when trying to seduce them. But one of the most powerful uses of NLP is to condition an woman to orgasm… whenever you want.
It sounds crazy but hear me out.
Anchoring is something a lot of the great seducers are using to get women addicted to them. Here’s what anchoring means: you do a very small thing to a woman at a certain point in the interaction.
Thee next times you do it, she will feel what she felt the first time. The more you do it, the deeper you anchored those feelings.
There is a BIG misconception out there in the sense that people are either pro or against canned pick-up openers. It’s as if you HAVE to be natural or you HAVE to be scripted. I’m here to set the records straight.
You see, learning to get good with women has a learning curve. This learning curve is bigger or smaller, depending on whether or not you were a geek in your previous life.
When you first start approaching women, your mind is paralyzed. You know that what you’re doing is unnatural and – let’s face it – you’re scared sh**less. There is NO WAY you can be natural at this point.
That’s why you need canned opening lines. Because once you’re in the set and she responds well, as a beginner, you’re in 7th heaven. If you already did your first approach you know the feeling.
You may or may not know but you can actually last longer while having sex without doing all sorts of exercises for several months.
Granted, the latter way is the way to go, but what if you have a hot date tonight and you don’t want to embarrass yourself?
There is a type of condom that will cause you to last longer. The good news is that it’s perfectly safe and it has almost no side effects.
How does it work?
The special condoms have a so-called local anesthetic: benzocaine. This will cause the head of your penis to not feel anything and, thus, not ejaculate.
Benzocaine’s chemical structure looks something like this (not that it’s important for you to know, I just thought it might be fun to mix sex and chemistry a little) :