Relationship coach and author Michael Fiore shares with you how you can get your ex girlfriend back. For the video version of this click here:
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You ever let a woman go and then wish, more than anything, together to come back?
Hi, this is Mike Fiore and in the article below, I will show you how to use tiny little text messages, sent from the cell-phone you’ve got in your pocket RIGHT NOW, to get your ex-girlfriend to forgive you for everything you feel like you’ve done wrong.
To forget once and for all about any other man and to do anything she has to to wrap herself in your arms again, begging for your forgiveness, fighting for your attention, and swearing up and down that getting back together is 100% her idea.
OK, so you’re getting good at texting girls. Your phone is literally a magnet that gets women into the comfort zone. You’re IN.
But here’s what happens. Once you start texting back and forth, she’ll soon become some comfortable with this that she won’t FEEL the NEED to SEE you. You’ve just become text buddies.
Well, that sucks! … This is THE friends zone of texting.
We know about the “friends zone” problem ,right? And we know what the solution is: to prevent it from happening.
Text friends zone is much worse that just friends zone… because you don’t even get to see her. She can’t see you, you can’t make any moves and she doesn’t even have to respond to your texts.
This question is always tough. No matter how much experience you have, it’s difficult to try and foresee whether it’s best to re initiate the conversation by texting or by calling.
If you already know you’re going to start texting, I’ve already written some kick-ass text openers here (that take into consideration the type of girl you’re dealing with <-- very important).
But if you're not sure, let me tell you why I think that telephoning is important.
If you've done any selling at all, you probably know that you get the best results when dealing face-to-face with your prospect. You get the second best results on the phone and you get the "worst" results when communicating by e-mail.
This works the same way with girls. The more alive the interaction is, the better your response. Of course, the whole point in taking her number is so that you can see her another time, but why is telephoning better than texting?
The difference is obvious, once you learn to recognize it: she can hear your voice. When she hears your voice, it's much easier for you to "suck her into the conversation".
The second big reason is that you can respond to her objections in real time. Since you guys don't know each-other very well (and you haven't done it yet), she's always going to try to crash and burn your interaction. Women have been doing that since the beginning of the world and technology is one more way in which they can do that to guys. 🙂
Anyway, texting is slow and it takes a while for her to answer. It's easy for you to fall into the "neediness trap" and respond faster and faster to her messages, while she takes more and more time to respond.
With voice calls, that never happens. You're both talking like you would face to face so you're free to play your game as you like.
The third and final reason is that a girl will perceive a man who texts as less dominant than one who makes the call directly. Depending on the type of girl, you might have to think for a few minutes how you want to start the interaction.
Does this mean that texting is bad?
Of course not. Texting is great. I’ve actually had text conversations with girls of 30 or 40 messages each in one night. It was really cool.
But the real question I want to answer right now is should you start by making the phone call or by texting? In my experience, being ballsy is always best, so start with the phone-call. You’ll have plenty of time to text later.
In case you’re not up to speed with this, there are basically 2 ways to give woman an orgasm (through vaginal stimulation and through clitoral stimulation). Some of the modern-day Cassanovas have the ability to bring a woman to orgasm without stimulating her in-between her legs. But we’ll leave those cases for another time.
The easiest orgasm you can give to your woman is, of course, the clitoral orgasm, through the stimulation of the clitoris.
Since the clitoris is partly outside of the vagina, it’s easier for you to touch and stimulate it in any way that you want BUT…
you have to be careful… the clitoris is also a very very sensitive organ. It has over 8 000 nerve endings in the clitoral head (the one you’ll be stimulating) so you have to be extremely cautious.
Don’t you just hate it when that happens? And don’t you just hate it when the “boyfriend destroyer” tactics you thought would work just don’t do the trick?
That’s right. The key word here is trick. trying to trick a woman with a simple line will only work if she’s already interested in you. And since she already said she has a boyfriend… well.. maybe she’s not ready to take of her panties… yet.
That’s where I come in. I’ve heard the “I have a boyfriend” BS so many times that I instantly know what to do. But that doesn’t just mean that I just use the right line. Nooo. Not by a long shot. I know how the entire conversation should play out. The conversation that culminates with her forgetting all about her man… at least temporarily.