Ok, class, let me see a show of hands. Who here thinks that kissing a girl within minutes of meeting her in a club is easy?
Good. A lot of you raised their hand.
Second question. Who here thinks that using “PUA tricks” to get her into bed gets easier when you practice?
I see less of you raising your hands behind your monitors. That’s good. Getting them into bed is a little harder but doable.
Last question. Who here thinks it’s easy to make a girl fall in love?
What? No one raised their hand?
No wonder. Making a girl fall in love with you is one NOT a piece of cake. This is a long term thing so, unless you plan to f*ck her every day for the rest of your life, you should definitely read this article.
You’re probably well aware that style is something most women are very attracted to. If you’ve ever gone to a club wearing extremelty stylish clothes, you probably saw with your own eyes the difference. Women seem to check you out more, it’s easier to get the phone number, the first date and so one.
Style is a good lubricant for social interactions.
The thing is, you don’t have to dress to stand out to stand out, if you know what I mean. Sure, you can wear blod colors and attrat every eye in the room. I’ve done it and I still do it. But you don’t HAVE to. There are some weird tricks that most men don’t know that don’t attract too much attention, yet they help spark taht attraction once you’re talking with someone.
This probably happened to you on more than one occasion. You approach a girl. You get the number. You talk on the phone. You set up a date.
Then, out of the blue, she calls 30 minutes right before the date to tell you she can’t make it.
WTF? You did everything right. She liked you. She had every reason to see you. It’s obvious she canceled on purpose.
To really get into her head and figure out why she flaked, imagine you’ve been approached by a salesman. He wants to sell you shares in a company that is about to grow exponentially.
He’s right on time because you were actually looking for investments. (Bear with me on this one)>
So he approached you, you talk and his arguments seem valid. In fact, he gets you exited and pumped up. He even shows you the downsides but it’s no biggie. The chances on making some real money is there.
If you haven’t yet heard of the TV Series, Californication, you’re missing out on a lot. The main charachter, Hank, while he gets a lot of female attention without even trying, does a lot of things that you should be doing in your endeavors with women.
If you want to see some one not giving a $hit, look no further. Hank can do all of that, yet talk to women in a very smart and charismatic way.
Here’s a few scenes that will, hopefully, convince you to watch all the seasons. Needless to say, I’m a huge fan of the series and hope to convince you as well.
OK, now these following 2 clips also have some explanations on the side. Some PUA friend went to the trouble of doing that, it’s really cool:
Back when I was beginning my journey with women, I saw a seminar by the none other than David DeAngelo. He talked a lot about complex psychologicalissues but in a way that it made sense for a noob such as myself.
One of those concepts was the observing ego and, let me assure you, it’s one of the best things I ever learned form him.
This isn’t actually his invention, it seems that Carl Jung developed it. Nonetheless, I want to bring you this to your attention because it’s super important.
The Big Idea
The observing ego is the capacity to observe themselves at any given moment in time or the capacity to observe others. (One Map for Mystery by Brenda Donahue).
It’s basically a way to detach yourself from bad situations, observe the fact that you’re angry/upset and try to logically calm yourself.