You’ve probably heard this a lot of times:
Make her laugh. Women love to laugh!
I also bet you’ve heard this a few times as well:
Dude, I’m not making any girl laugh. I’m no clown. I’m a real man, being authentic and upfront about sex is what gets them into bed.
There’s a lot of CONFUSION on whether humor works with girls or not, and I’m here to set things straight.
People who are usually in favor or against this or that way of getting girls usually see the world only through their own eyes. If they’re not naturally funny, they assume everyone should be like them and focus on THEIR strengths in order to game chicks.
Well, guess what? THEIR strengths aren’t necessarily YOUR strengths.
To this day I can still remember back when I was really, really shy. The emotions I would feel when someone (not just girls) would talk to me are still alive and kicking inside me, even though it’s been years since I’m in full control of my self-esteem.
D’you know how many seconds would my self esteem last when someone would approach me about… anything? Half a second on average. The moment they started talking to me, they would be in full control of the conversation and, essentially, me.
The only time I felt in control was when I was alone… I had no exterior factor to burst my little bubble and I was happy.
Pathetic, right? Even though I was king of the hill when I was alone playing on my computer or listening to music, I knew I had a problem. The only thing was, I had no idea how to fix it.