Best Places To Touch a Girl And Make Her Horny

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Girls are riddles. No matter how well you think you know one, the other one is completely different. And I’m not talking about just personality and looks here. Even some of the things that are straightforward with guys are different from girl to girl.

Touching them and getting them horny is a never-ending challenge, that up until now was overcome only by the most experienced of men. For the rest of us, it was a series of never ending awkwardness.

Things are about to change. Science, once again, comes to our aid.

Are you familiar with the hormone called oxytocin? To put it simple, oxytocin sends a rush of testosterone through a girl’s body, similar to when she’s at the gym lifting weights.

But for this to happen, she needs to feel attraction for you and be comfortable with your around her. Otherwise this will NOT work.

Let me prove it to you. Are you familiar with the study done by NICOLAS GUEGUEN and JACQUES FISCHER-LOKOU (2002) AN EVALUATION OF TOUCH ON A LARGE REQUEST: A FIELD SETTING? Probably not.

Well, these guys came to some really interesting conclusions. Really interesting, check it out:

The effect of touch on compliance to a request has traditionally been tested with small solicitation (answer to a small questionnaire, give a dime to a confederate ….). In our experiment a larger request was evaluated. Passersby, 53 men and 67 women, were asked by two confederates to look after a large and very excited dog for 10 minutes because each wanted to go into a pharmacy where animals were prohibited. In half of the cases, subjects were touched during the request. Analysis showed that, when touched, 55% of the subjects agreed with the request whereas 35% only in the no-touch control condition agreed. This finding indicates that touch was positively associated with the subjects’ compliance.

So what do you do if one girl likes to be kissed on her back while another hates it when you finger her?

What do you do if a girl likes it when you take as much as you can from one her breast in your mouth, while another doesn’t even let you touch it?

There’s a simple solution to all of this. You have to get over one big limiting belief, and that is that you somehow have to know how to turn each girl on from the get go.

This is downright impossible. The good news is that it’s not a problem, either.

Look, girls don’t expect you to know what turns them on and where to kiss them. No guy they’ve ever slept with knew how.

It’s a matter of how you approach the “problem”. This is not really a problem because learning what turns a woman on and where to kiss her are tow of my favorite things to do when the lights go out.

Start with these “safe” areas of her body

Too much too soon is what screws most guys. Start with her arms, her elbows and the back of her head. As long as she’s comfortable with you around her and she sees you as a viable sex partner, she won’t have a problem with you touching her there.

Her arms are the best place to start. Early in the date (or club approach if that’s the case) you can hold her arm, HI 5 her, squeeze her palm and so on. Once she’s comfortable with

Touch her while she’s laughing

I’ve actually learned this from a girl who used to touch me when I made her laugh. It’s always a safe bet to do it when things are on a high point, such as when you make a joke and you share laughter.

Poke her

If she’s not laughing, you’re probably doing something wrong. And one way to make her laugh is to… poke her. Not out of the blue, of course. Do it after you make a joke, particularly if she doesn’t seem to want to come out of her shell.

Ask her where she likes to be touched

Every girl knows where she likes to be touched. Once things get hot, a common myth is that you’re suppose to know exactly where to touch her and how.

B.S.! If this is your first time with her, ASK HER. I guarantee she won’t get mad. In fact, she’ll be happy that she finally came across a man who’s interested in pleasing her, not just himself.

Make Small Talk

Why? Because you need to “touch” her mind, not just her body. Besides, you don’t want her thinking that all you want is to get inside her. This will only make her anxious and have second thoughts.

Experiment

Even if you do know where she likes to be kissed and touched, this doesn’t mean you have to limit yourself to these areas. Quite the contrary. It’s always great to spice things up and try new things.

The only rule is to stay away from the places she DOESN’T like. Other than those, I encourage you to keep things interesting by touching and kissing her in every imaginable place.

The “almost” move

The “almost” move, for lack of a better name, is the best way I’ve found (to date) to escalate.

Let’s take breasts for instance. If the two of you are still fully dressed, it makes no sense to jump right in and massage them. Instead, start touching her neck, then slowly go down until you read the upper part of her boobs. Slowly go down for about an inch, then come back up.

This is huge. It will let her know you’re not that anxious to get into bed with her and that you know what you’re doing. And guess what’s the next thing will happen next? That’s right, her oxytocin levels will skyrocket.

From there on, the path to sex is wide open for you.

Barely touch her erogenous zones

Before you dive into her like an animal, how about you send her a message? Touch her very lightly on her pussy, nipples and the inside of her thighs and then remove your hand or mouth after a few seconds.

Re-focus your attention to one of the other zones that she considers “safe” and come back later to her pussy. When you do this, of course, you need to spend a little more time.

Warning! No matter how well you’re fucking her, always come back to kissing her neck, shoulders, belly or any other “safe” parts of her body. THIS small detail is going to make her remember you. Remember, you’re the one in control of her orgasms, she just has to let go.

Final Word

Before I wrap this up, I just want to give you one more tip. The position you both assume while you’re doing all of this touching is just as important as any other sexual positions from the Kama Sutra.

If she’s not sitting comfortably, she won’t like it and you’ll just assume it’s your fault. If you’re not sitting comfortably, you wont’ be fully focused on her and that could also be detrimental.

Try different positions and different ways of touching her, remember what worked and to it over and over again!

16 thoughts on “Best Places To Touch a Girl And Make Her Horny

  1. I am in…understanding touching is important…. every situation is different yet the same. A handshake breaks THE ice… so how much touching IS needed.
    I am interested in someone. How can I escalate HER interest without boring HER.

  2. I leave ni a house where there xould be upto 6ladies in and i can get laid. I guess if i try this lil tips. Someone would gladly fuck my brains out. I got complimenta but ibignore the signals now am bones out. Holla back with a fuck portion.

  3. Even I want a guy who touches my boobs suck my nipple squeeze it lick my pussy and also make me horny and lots of things that you men want to do with a sexy girl if interested please reply me and satisfy my sexual need…..
    Thanks waiting for you

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