I sometimes I sit and wonder: what good is it to have dozens of blogs dedicated to getting things to work with women if most geeks out there still don’t get it?
And I’m not talking about the little guy. I’m talking about the big boys in the industry, such as The Verge or Jezebel who couldn’t tie two ideas together if their life depended on them. (I read The Verge regularly because of their HQ pics and videos but ther bashing against Microsoft and Apple’s continuous ass-kissing is well know by their readers who attack them from every direction possible with almost every article).
What Ideas you may ask?
One is that it’s appropriate to take woman’s hand and put it on her penis. Any non-virgin knows that.
The second idea is that it’s ok to do it if you’re already at your place with the chick AND you’be nee out with her several times.
Guys like to brag about a lot of things when it comes to their female conquests.. but very few of them can actually make a girl squirt.
Yes, women can ejaculate and this is usually accompanied by a body-shaking orgasm. Do this to a girl and she’ll be hooked with your for life.
Before we go on, we need to set things straight as far as the terminology is concerned. There’s a difference between ejaculation and squirting.
I’m not going to get to technical about it, what I want you to know is the difference between the two for when you’ll actually see them happen.
Ejaculation is the elimination of a whitish fluid in very small quantities, while squirting is the elimination of a “fluider” liquid, that’s more abundant and more clear (more resemblant to urine).
There are many skills you need to have when it comes to getting the girl. They’re all important and, if you’re not good with one of them, that’s what we call a sticking point.
But not one of these skills is as important as bringing up sex and getting girls to SEE you as a sex-worthy guy. I think it was one of the RSD guys who said that.
Look at it this way. It’s not that hard to get a girl to like hanging out with you. It’s not hard to pick them up and get their phone number.
Pleasuring them is a piece of cake and, as long as you’re decent in bed, they’ll want more. Sure, you can always improve to make give them multiple orgasms and having them ejaculate but…
In case you’re not up to speed with this, there are basically 2 ways to give woman an orgasm (through vaginal stimulation and through clitoral stimulation). Some of the modern-day Cassanovas have the ability to bring a woman to orgasm without stimulating her in-between her legs. But we’ll leave those cases for another time.
The easiest orgasm you can give to your woman is, of course, the clitoral orgasm, through the stimulation of the clitoris.
Since the clitoris is partly outside of the vagina, it’s easier for you to touch and stimulate it in any way that you want BUT…
you have to be careful… the clitoris is also a very very sensitive organ. It has over 8 000 nerve endings in the clitoral head (the one you’ll be stimulating) so you have to be extremely cautious.
Ahhh, the amazing breasts. You worked so hard to get to them. You probably even imagined what it would be like to squeeze them in your hands for the first time.
If your girl’s boobies are anything like my ex girlfriend’s, I completely get why you’d want to learn how to know how to touch them. It would be a sin NOT to.
A big secret related to breast stimulation is that doing it also increases vaginal lubrication. As you know, no lube on the market can beat the natural lubricant of a woman’s vagina.
Anyway, let’s get down to business. The first lesson when it comes to breasts stimulation is this: don’t do it! (Well, at least not yet.)
You see, right when you uncover your girl’s breasts for the first time, she feels like her privacy is broken. She knows she wants sex, she knows she’s the one who let you undress her in the first place.
Girls read romance and erotic novels like crazy. I can’t find the statistics anymore but they were mind blowing. A huge number of girls are turned on by this kind of literature.
So why should you care? Let me tell you this as slowly as I can:
If you learn the secret language of erotic novels, you can have more sex than anyone can dream.
You will then discover an extremely powerful way of communication with the opposite sex that’s only been used by the biggest seducers of the world.
OK, I know that last sentence is a bit corny but think about it. Guys don’t give a rat’s ass on erotic literature. They’d rather just drive a girl crazy until she finally gives in and agrees to have sex with them.
The title may sound weird but this is deep stuff, man. This trick right here is extremely powerful as long as you do it right.
Ever heard of NLP. Neuro-linguistic programming is a way of communication that can give you high leverage with women when trying to seduce them. But one of the most powerful uses of NLP is to condition an woman to orgasm… whenever you want.
It sounds crazy but hear me out.
Anchoring is something a lot of the great seducers are using to get women addicted to them. Here’s what anchoring means: you do a very small thing to a woman at a certain point in the interaction.
Thee next times you do it, she will feel what she felt the first time. The more you do it, the deeper you anchored those feelings.
You may or may not know but you can actually last longer while having sex without doing all sorts of exercises for several months.
Granted, the latter way is the way to go, but what if you have a hot date tonight and you don’t want to embarrass yourself?
There is a type of condom that will cause you to last longer. The good news is that it’s perfectly safe and it has almost no side effects.
How does it work?
The special condoms have a so-called local anesthetic: benzocaine. This will cause the head of your penis to not feel anything and, thus, not ejaculate.
Benzocaine’s chemical structure looks something like this (not that it’s important for you to know, I just thought it might be fun to mix sex and chemistry a little) :
If you’ve been learning about becoming a master lover, you’ve undoubtedly heard these rumors: most women fake orgasms! The number that’s being spread around the Internet is that 54% of them are doing it. If you ask me it’s probably even higher since some will never admit to this.
Anyway, the stats are less important. What’s important is that you learn to identify it and then, of course, do something about it.
But before we get into that, let me ask a question that you probably didn’t consider. WHY? Why do they do it?
The same studies suggest that women are more likely to fake orgasms if they’re afraid to lose their partners… or if they’re afraid they’ll cheat on them.
Do you know what this means? If she’s faking it, she’s doing it because she’s afraid to lose you!
If you’ve been with the same girl for at least a few months, you’re probably facing this problem: sex has become a routine.
This is normal, actually. Us humans get bored very easily, yet not many of us are looking for ways to spice things up. So if you’re reading this you’re probably one of the few who are actually willing to take action. So congrats!
The only question is, what kind of action?
I’ll give you some great tips on how to spice up your love life. But before I go into that, let me give you a small caveat:
If you just start applying the techniques, your girl might not like it. She’s used to you two making love in a certain way and if you come up with something new, she’ll say to herself:
What’s up with my man? He’s not usually like this…