There’s a VEEERY interesting concept I came across a few years ago, which is at the basis of my success with women… or with anything else for that matter.
Grab yourself a cup of coffee because this article is extremely important and with deep consequences for your love life.
Today we’re taking a break from finding ways to get into women’s panties to take a trip deep down in our subconscious. We’re gonna talk about a concept called “flow”.
There is no clear definition of what flow is (or isn’t) but I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced it more than once in your life. Maybe several times. Flux is all about those moments where you’re in some sort of a productive euphoria, when no objective is too hard to reach.
For instance you might have felt it when you got a raise at your job or when you overcame a difficult situation. You feel like you want to keep going.
But here’s the thing, in those moments, you’ve experienced flux when it was already too late and didn’t really matter anymore. You need it BEFORE that, like when you’re out picking up chicks or reaching your goals, whatever they are.
To get into that wonderful state of flow, we have to break it down into little pieces and figure out how it works, right? Let’s try and remember what we felt like the last time we were in flow. Most likely, the following were true:
– you had low anxiety
– you were relaxed, you experienced positive stress (that’s the kind of stress you WANT to have, where you know you have stuff to do and you can’t wait to do it)
– and the challenge was something within reach. If the challenge is too big and you give it your best, you’ll end up disappointed when you can’t overcome it, no matter what you do
and, what’s more important, you probably were distraction free. In fact, when you’re in flow, everything around starts to fade out.
You see, that’s exactly where I want you to get. To become so absorbed into meeting and fucking hot women, you have to be in that state. And the only way to get there, is to practice it before hand.
How do you practice being in a state of flow when meeting women when you’re not actually doing it? Easy. You practice being like that 24/7. It’s the same as being “high on life”.
You see, guys who think and have the hottest women, they also think they deserve the best things in life. And they’re appreciative towards what they already have.
If you look around you, you’ll probably discover lots of things that make you think you’re fortunate compared to other people> family, friends, even money. There’s lots of things to be happy about. You’ve got your health, your youth, maybe you won something by working hard (nor not!). Whatever those things are, make sure you remember then and how fortunate you are to have them in your life.
Second, you have to remove any negative though from your head. After a while, this becomes second nature and you’ll find it very easy to get into the flow state. But, until then, you have to “catch” your bad thoughts and kick them out of your conscious mind.
The faster you do it, the easier it will be for you to get into the state.
OK, so here’s what you have to do now. Look around you and think: how can I get the most out of every single moment? What can I do to make the best of it?
If you’re laying in bed reading this article, ask yourself: why and I doing it? If it’s to get better with women, how about get out the house right now and approach one? With a smile on your face, negativity-free and certain you can fuck her.
Here’s your homework for today: be the mos optimistic person you can be. Everyone around us is so caught up in the rat race of life that they forget to smile and enjoy it. Once you’re there, you have to make just another small step and become productive, i.e. to start working with enthusiasm towards your goals.